It May Not Work
These past two months have been times of deep reflection and evaluation. Writing became difficult because I was balancing pros and cons and trying to make sense about certain things. In this field of visualization I have been an autodidact, permanently learning from experience. Therefore, my journey is mostly valid for me, because I have no mass studies, statistics, or things of that sort.
Two months ago I felt really tired and had to ask the visualization group for a pause. I felt my energy failing and my vibrations lowering.
I stopped seeing the group and I also stopped visualizing for some days. Things were not clear in my heart and were not clear in my mind either. What was wrong? I was convinced that the “system” worked. I had proved it in the past. Therefore, there was something specific to this experience that was not working the right way for me.
After a couple of weeks things started getting into place and I realized that I didn’t feel the same level of commitment in some of the members. Some often acknowledged not having visualized many days of the week, others didn’t even ask who they had to visualize for.
The general lesson is this: for a group to be effective and fulfilling, all members have to commit and take responsibility for the group. I already knew that but now I realize that there is a need to put it as a requirement before creating the group. So far, the groups I helped create were “open to whoever may be interested”.
At a personal level I have learned now that to share my intents and deposit my confidence for their realization in other people, I need a guarantee that those intents will be handled with love and responsibility.
The question “on the desk” now is how to confirm that before the group is working. I have to find a way to test commitment and responsibility before building the visualization group. This is my next challenge.
Why posting this? Well, simple responsibility. This aspect was not addressed in Thriving Together, because I was not so much aware of it. Now that I am, I think it is responsible to let you know, because if you are reading this, you are interested in group visualization. If so, you’ll probably create your own group at some point.
I’ll be living and learning forever; that is what makes it fun.
February 9, 2010
Tags: group visualization, responsibility Posted in: group visualization, intents and purposes, la meditación, libros autoayuda, meditation, meditation techniques, personal development, personal development goals, personal goals, tus intenciones
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Couldn’t agree more. I think we have to be fully committed to the group, otherwise it won’t work properly… We need each other
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